musings

  • If you saw Disaster recently and took the time to scan the QR code in the program to read the bios and then cut and paste the URL in my bio — my apologies. I promised you’d find here everything we cook for dinner and I haven’t even updated the weekly meal calendar on the…

    Read more →

  • A writer I follow shared tips today for saving your voice when you have to talk a lot. Coincidentally, it’s my opening night of The Fantasticks with Triad Pride Acting Company, so let me get back into the posting vibe by sharing her info and adding some of my own. For context: I subscribe to…

    Read more →

  • I have had a number of physical doppelgängers in my life. Back when I was waiting tables, I looked like everyone’s cousin or brother’s girlfriend or that girl down the street who used to babysit and play soccer. It doesn’t help that I change my hair color on the regular and look completely different depending…

    Read more →

  • “I suppose it will all make sense when we grow up.”

    Yesterday was a very important anniversary — it’s been 40 years since Calvin and Hobbes came bounding into our lives, questioning how the world works and embracing the surreal. More celebrations here and here. I was the same age as Calvin when he premiered, and ten years later, by the time of that last printed…

    Read more →

  • Exist. Out loud.

    One of the things I miss about IG is finding new artists to follow. Luckily, a few of them have blogs I can follow away from the malevolence of Meta*. One of those is Sky Fusco, who first caught my and myriad other eyeballs with this gem — https://lordcowboy.com/printshop/p/lookiehere Sky’s newsletter today (ok, technically yesterday,…

    Read more →

  • The Dog Days of Summer

    Despite only hitting the solstice last week, Flat 493 has been in the dog days of summer this month. Nothing *bad*, just v. little to write home about. I volunteered for Triad Pride Performing Arts’ spring concert and tent at Pride and hit my workout goals for the month early, yay, but also read a…

    Read more →

  • I grew up five minutes from the Mason-Dixon Line and 45 from Gettysburg, and Hampton’s dad is a rare book dealer with a specialty in Civil War ephemera, so I was tickled yesterday to learn a story we’d never heard before to mark the 150th anniversary of the war over “states’ rights”. [the right to…

    Read more →

  • I am currently signed up for more e-newsletters than I can count. Well, I suppose I could but, English major. I read, not math. Anyway, as I clean out the backlog from being on vacation (although shoutout to T-Mobile’s easy-to-add, justifiably priced, and capable international data plan), two in particular have stuck with me. The…

    Read more →

  • Resolutions for the Revolution

    I miss those halcyon days of 2016… when the evil that is the NC GOP passed HB2 and the country revolted against this “bathroom bill”. Musicians cancelled concerts, sports leagues moved tournament games, and it’s estimated this bs move cost the state nearly four billion dollars. And now? Now the NC GOP is stripping rightfully…

    Read more →

  • #prolife

    “The unborn” are a convenient group of people to advocate for. They never make demands of you; they are morally uncomplicated, unlike the incarcerated, addicted, or the chronically poor; they don’t resent your condescension or complain that you are not politically correct; unlike widows, they don’t ask you to question patriarchy; unlike orphans, they don’t…

    Read more →